
Please Don't Cut the Baby
A Nurse's Memoir
By: Marilyn Fayre Milos, Judy Kirkwood
Paperback | 20 February 2024
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Marilyn Fayre Milos was a nursing student on the obstetrical unit in 1979 when she first witnessed a baby being circumcised. The only person to step forward to comfort the infant as it writhed and screamed in pain during the surgery, she was shocked when the doctor said to her: "There is no medical reason for doing this." From that moment on, Marilyn became an advocate for ending medically unnecessary circumcision, protecting our children, and educating parents, the public, and medical professionals about this cultural fraud and violation of human rights. She founded the National Organization of Circumcision Information Resource Centers (NOCIRC); organized fifteen international symposia; and became a spokesperson for promoting the genital integrity of all children. A story of determination, service, and love, Marilyn's memoir describes the myths, misinformation, and economic forces driving non-religious infant circumcision in the United States, where it has become standard practice. Readers may find their own beliefs and assumptions challenged, and their hearts touched by this story of a life devoted to justice for babies and the adults they will become.
Industry Reviews
"This is the story of the Alma Mater (Nourishing Mother) of the movement to stop doctors worldwide from committing atrocities, which harm their patients for life."-George C. Denniston, MD, MPH, co-editor of NOCIRC's eight books of presentations from the International Symposia on Genital Autonomy and Children's Rights, co-editor of Say No to Circumcision!: 40 Compelling Reasons, and the founder of Doctors Opposing Circumcision
"Marilyn Milos's Please Don't Cut the Baby! A Nurse's Memoir is a timely book, appearing as it does amid growing bioethical and human rights concerns over non-therapeutic infant male circumcision and genital mutilation in general. Knowing, as we do today, that children, even before birth, are sentient, conscious, and remembering beings, the trauma inflicted upon them by such surgical interventions represents a life-long wounding on their bodies and psyches that will adversely affect them. Prevention trumps treatment. Future parents need to read this fine book."-Thomas R Verny, MD, DPsych, DHL (Hon), FRCP(C), FAPA, author of The Secret Life of the Unborn Child, The Embodied Mind
"In 1980, Ed Wallerstein dedicated his book, Circumcision: An American Health Fallacy, to 'healthcare providers who have already disavowed the necessity of routine newborn circumcision.' After advocating against medically unnecessary circumcision for decades, Marilyn Milos epitomizes the enlightened healthcare providers my father's book was dedicated to. Had he lived to see the publication of Please Don't Cut The Baby! A Nurse's Memoir, my father would have whole-heartedly endorsed Marilyn's new book."-Les Wallerstein, JD, M.Psych
"Male and female circumcision is a crime, and to be more precise, it is the greatest crime committed by humanity against its weakest members. Knowing Marilyn Milos and her courage and persistence in tackling this crime, I would like to encourage everyone to read her book. I hope it will soon be translated into all languages so that this crime finally stops."-Sami Aldeeb Abu-Sahlieh, Doctor of Law, Centre de Droit Arabe et Musulman, author of Male & Female Circumcision Among Jews, Christians and Muslims: Religious Medical, Social, and Legal Debate
"When Marilyn Milos recruited me to join a team of doctors fighting infant circumcision at a conference in San Francisco in 1996, I had no idea what I was getting into. She helped reshape my career in wellness through activism. Over a quarter of a century later, as I delight in her long awaited memoir, I marvel at her abilities to inspire generations of men and women to take up the cause of genital justice. It's my fervent hope that it will inspire future generations to complete this work, even if they never are as lucky as I am to experience this force of nature firsthand."-John Travis, MD., MPH, Alliance for Transforming the Lives of Children (aTLC)
"The first dictum of ethical medical practice is 'Primum Non Nocere' (First Do No Harm). In contrast, much of the medical profession in the United States and other English-speaking countries has deliberately and knowingly violated this fundamental tenet of ethical medical conduct, by subjecting defenseless children to cruel and harmful circumcisions that can result in traumatic, lifelong psycho-sexual harm. This book about the tragedy of infant male circumcision illustrates the author's enormous courage, and that of other ethicists throughout the world, in tackling head-on this useless and harmful non-therapeutic sexual reduction surgery imposed on many non-consenting and defenseless minors, including normal, healthy baby boys."-Gregory J. Boyle, PhD, DSc, FAPS
Foreword
Preface
Finding My Voice: The Making of an Activist 1975-1979
1. Awakening
2. Marriage, Motherhood, and the Word "Circumcised"
3. Growing Up and Living in a Changing World
4. Early Activism
5. The Seventies
Becoming Informed: The Creation of NOCIRC (National
Organization of Circumcision Information Resource
Centers) 1979-1989
6. Educating Myself About Circumcision
7. Parental Education or Parental Coercion?
8. Understanding, Engagement, Action
9. Life-Altering Changes
10. Progress and Obstacles
11. NOCIRC Takes the Message to National Television.
Building a Social Movement to Stop Circumcision 1989-2018
12. 1st International Symposium on Circumcision
13. Challenging the Medical Establishment
14. 2nd Symposium and a New Relationship
15. Nurses Lead the Way
16. Losing My Mother and My Brother
17. Learning from My Mistakes
18. Support for Circumcision as a Humanitarian
Issue Grows
19. An International Symposium
20. The Emotional Toll of This Work
21. Clashing with the American Academy of Pediatrics
22. Protestors Jonathon Conte and the Bloodstained Men
23. Legal Breakdowns, a Tragic Legal Victory, and an
Unexpected Breakthrough
24. Genital Integrity and Genital Autonomy
25. Highlights from Symposia Over the Years
26. The Circumcision Crisis in Africa
Not the End
27.The Birth of Intact America.
28. Why Me?
29. Why You?
Resources
About the Authors
Acknowledgments
Notes
Index
ISBN: 9781950495498
ISBN-10: 1950495493
Published: 20th February 2024
Format: Paperback
Language: English
Number of Pages: 316
Audience: General Adult
Publisher: LIGHTNING SOURCE INC
Dimensions (cm): 22.86 x 15.24 x 1.68
Weight (kg): 0.42
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