Paterson Boy

Paterson Boy is a memoir told as a series of stories. Sometimes laugh-out-loud funny, sometimes ironic and sometimes filled with heartache, Paterson Boy takes you on a journey that will make you reflect on your own childhood with its many disparate pieces. Collectively they are a rite of passage story with all the varied emotions that would suggest, but minus the drama of war, incest, or the physical abuse, of so many other memoirs-for which the author is very sorry.

With a fresh, wise voice, Jerry Vis tells a marvelous story of the freedom of childhood, its loss, and search for the path back to oneself. It is also a tale of Paterson, NJ as it starts to decline, of a neighborhood that is an entire world for an only child born into a blue collar family just months before the start of WW II. It is a place of family owned stores and horse drawn vendor wagons, of aunts and uncles, grandparents, teachers, and friends. Jerry has an adoring mother who provides a decade of loving security and the freedom to explore his boyhood world on his own, and a remote father who comes in and out of focus in Jerry's life until he dramatically emerges center stage, along with a confusing mix of God, religion and alcohol.

At the same time, other family members, each with their own agenda, scheme, lure, cajole, or bribe him in an attempt to shape him into what each thinks he ought to be, and in an attempt to save him from his father. Suspicious of everyone's demands Jerry must somehow learn to find a way to become himself.

With great charm, empathy and humor Jerry Vis perfectly captures the emotional center and voice of a child-baffled, frustrated and occasionally entertained by the adults in his life.

This book is the first of three volumes.