Children of the Aging Self-Absorbed : A Guide to Coping with Difficult, Narcissistic Parents and Grandparents - Nina W. Brown

Children of the Aging Self-Absorbed

A Guide to Coping with Difficult, Narcissistic Parents and Grandparents

By: Nina W. Brown

Paperback | 1 September 2015

At a Glance

Paperback


RRP $43.75

$41.75

or 4 interest-free payments of $10.44 with

 or 
In Stock and Aims to ship in 1-2 business days

When will this arrive by?

Growing up with a parent who is self-absorbed is difficult, and they may become more difficult to deal with as they age. This essential book shows how to cope with your aging parent's narcissistic behavior, and provides tips to help protect yourself and your children from their self-absorbed, destructive actions.

As your self-absorbed parent grows older and becomes more dependent on you, hurtful relationships may resurface and become further strained. In the tradition of Children of the Self-Absorbed, author Nina Brown offers the first book for adult children of aging narcissistic or self-absorbed parents. You will learn practical, powerful strategies for navigating the intense negative feelings that your parents can incite, as well as tips to protect your children from the criticism, blame, or hostility that may exist between you and their grandparent.

In this book, you will gain greater awareness of how and why your parent's self-absorbed behaviors and attitudes get worse, and develop strategies to manage the negative feelings that can arise as a result. You'll also learn to reduce the shame and guilt that may be felt when you feel like you don't want to be a caretaker.  Finally, you'll learn to set limits with your parent so you can stay sane during this difficult time.

Having an aging parent can be stressful enough, but dealing with an aging narcissistic or self-absorbed parent is especially challenging. This essential guide will help you through.


Industry Reviews
Children of the Aging Self-Absorbed fills an important niche in the self-help literature: dealing with aging, difficult, narcissistic parents and grandparents. The book is a guide for adult children of such parents, and offers much wisdom. Brown delineates four types of self-absorbed parents—Clingy, Suspicious-Defensive, Arrogant, and Belligerent—and provides excellent strategies for managing interactions with each type of parent. The book has useful exercises designed to help readers manage their side of these very difficult relationships more effectively. The overriding message is that the adult child must—and can—let go of hoping to change the parent and instead develop self-protective coping behaviors. This book is a good resource for anyone dealing with an aging self-absorbed parent or grandparent, as well as for therapists helping their clients in such situations.”
Eleanor F. Counselman, EdD, ABPP, CGP, LFAGPA, president-elect of the American Group Psychotherapy Association, and assistant clinical professor of psychiatry, Harvard Medical School

More in Parenting: Advice & Issues

We Should All be Feminists - Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
The Complete Australian Guide to Pregnancy and Birth - Jodi Wilson
Dad Jokes : Good, Clean Fun for All Ages! - Jimmy Niro
Up the Duff 2020 Edition : The real guide to pregnancy - Kaz Cooke
So You're Going to Be a Dad : 25 Year Anniversary Edition - Peter Downey
The Unlocking : An Autism Story - Porscia Lam

RRP $34.99

$22.25

36%
OFF
Nannie Loves - Kylie Dunstan

Paperback

RRP $16.99

$16.25

Babies & Toddlers - Kaz Cooke

RRP $39.99

$35.35

12%
OFF
The Returned : A gripping Irish crime thriller - Amanda Cassidy

RRP $19.99

$16.95

15%
OFF