TABLE OF CONTENTS, Partial
Introduction................................................................................................7
PART 1: The Urgency to Get Started.......................................................9
"I'm Afraid in the Deep, Not the Shallow"......................................10
"I just need to learn to breathe".......................................................11
"I just need to learn to tread"...........................................................11
PART 2: How to Know If You're Afraid In Water................................13
PART 3: What Happened?...........................................................................15
PART 4: What Didn't Happen?..................................................................17
PART 5: How to Fix It................................................................................21
Step 1: 2+2=4..........................................................................................22
Step 2: How to Stay in Control..........................................................27
Step 3: Permission to Go at Your Own Pace......................................40
Step 4: What Is Safety?.........................................................................41
Step 5: Going Slowly...........................................................................44
Step 6: Stay True to Yourself.............................................................45
Step 7: Have Fun....................................................................................47
Step 8: Your Goals and Wildest Dreams...........................................49
Step 9: Your Relationship to Your Goals.........................................51
Step 10: Impact and Benefits of Being Afraid in Water...................53
Step 11: Understanding Self-Consciousness.....................................55
Step 12: Warm Up to Getting in..........................................................56
Step 13: Set Yourself Up to Succeed.................................................57
Step 14: Starting from Calm...............................................................58
Step 15: Being in Your Body vs. Being in Your Head......................59
Step 18: Letter to the Water...............................................................65
Step 19: Miami to Seattle.....................................................................70
Step 21: Your Beliefs About Water....................................................75
Step 22: Being/Doing/Having...............................................................78
Step 23: Your Face................................................................................83
Step 24: The Necessity of Being in Control......................................88
Step 25: Putting Your Ears in.............................................................91
Step 26: Comparing Yourself to Others............................................94
Step 27: Opening Your Eyes Under Water.........................................95
Step 28: Make It Simple for Yourself................................................97
Step 30: Putting Your Face in Without Holding Your Nose.......102
Step 31: How to Keep Water Out of Your Nose.............................104
Step 33: Feel the Water Hold You Up: the Front Float...............108
Step 36: Practice While You're Calm..............................................130
Step 39: Feel the Water Hold You Up on Your Back....................132
Step 41: Unfloating from a Back Float..........................................142
Step 64: How Does Fear Heal?
Step 69: Common Misunderstandings..........................................234
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