'The strength of Power's work lies in the diversity of the population she has interviewed. With the multiple racial, ethnic, economic and lifestyles represented, she delivers on her commitment to illustrating how couples can arrive at contentment. This book is a guide for couples that desire to deepen and expand the fulfilment of their partnerships.'
-- Linda Bloom, LCSW, co-author of 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last
'Anne Power is a sensitive and respectful guide in enabling eighteen couples to describe how they navigated the ordinary challenges of coming together and making a success of their relationships. Through the wisdom accrued as a therapist, she distils their stories into a treatise on the nature of love. This is a valuable resource for anyone considering commitment, anyone in a committed relationship wishing to understand more about their experience, and anyone whose role is to try and help them to do so.'
-- Christopher Clulow, PhD, Consultant Couple Psychotherapist and Senior Fellow of the Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology
'Anne Power has written an elegant, comprehensive book about coupling ... Anne's writing is captivating and so easy to fall into, just like some (but not all) relationships. The experiences of real-life couples and Anne's compassion take you on a journey of imaginative possibilities, while grounding you in the science of how and why love works. The confluence of magic, logic and luck come alive! Read this book to grow yourself and your relationship.'
-- Dr Kathryn Rheem, EFT Trainer, co-founder of the EFT Cafe
'Listening in to couples that thrive, who enjoy, trust and continue to develop is rare. Therapists tend to write about what needs changing, not what works. It is warming to hear these accounts of closeness in which obstacles are managed and which bring growth to both people.'
-- Susie Orbach, psychoanalyst and author of The Impossibility of Sex
'Anne Power provides a diverse cross-cultural perspective on the elusive mixture of magic, logic and luck that is involved in the making of a happy marriage ... Covering a range of marriage styles - from random romance to self-arranged marriages - this book shows how an initial spark of attraction can be transformed into an ever-glowing cosy fire that sustains a long-term relationship. A must-read for anyone who has ever wondered what makes a marriage work!'
-- Raksha Pande, author of Learning to Love: Arranged Marriages and the British Indian Diaspora
