On Coming into Possession of Oneself

'With incisive sensitivity and elegance of expression, Donnel B. Stern brilliantly defines, integrates and deepens our understanding of a cohesive relationalist view of what it means to be a person, a person in essence ever a part of the fabric of human connectedness. His clinical illustrations are alive, his insightful consideration of the implications of those analytic experiences richly extending as well as integrating our theories. This valuable work is engaging to read as well as rich in its contributions.'

Warren Poland, author of Intimacy and Separateness in Psychoanalysis

'Donnel B. Stern is one of our most penetrating thinkers on the subject of field theory. He gently reminds us that emotional connections are operating in ways that are outside of our awareness. The moment-to-moment experience carries with it an opening into areas that have long been dormant. In this extraordinary contribution into the unseen and the unheard, Stern activates the inner world of the "other" and the "self". It is a major contribution that is a must-read.

Glen O. Gabbard, MD, clinical professor Psychiatry, Baylor College of Medicine

'With equal measures of brilliance, intellectual rigor, and generosity, this book reminds us why and how psychoanalysis is magical. In a series of expansive gestures, Donnel B. Stern stages encounters with ideas that, while seemingly familiar, reveal themselves to be fresh with possibility: otherness, in these pages, aligns with psychic freedom, and Stern persuasively shows that witnessing and recognition remain critical ingredients of the psychoanalytic endeavor. This book renews the promise of psychoanalysis, which is to ask more of us, always.'

Avgi Saketopoulou, psychoanalyst in private practice, and faculty of New York University's postdocotral program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis