| Preface | |
| Laying the Sociological Foundation | |
| Introduction | p. 1 |
| The Sociology of Marriage and Family | p. 4 |
| How society molds our expectations | |
| Issues in Marriage | p. 13 |
| Fundamental changes in marriage and family | |
| What Is a Family Anyway? | p. 23 |
| Revolutionary changes | |
| The War Over the Family | p. 31 |
| Reactions to change: Conservative and liberal | |
| Social and Cultural Diversity | |
| Introduction | p. 41 |
| Worlds of Pain | p. 44 |
| Social class diversity: The middle and working classes | |
| African American Families | p. 51 |
| Racial and cultural diversity: African Americans | |
| Mexican American Families | p. 66 |
| Racial and cultural diversity: Hispanics | |
| Is Living Together Such a Good Idea? | p. 76 |
| Life style diversity: Cohabitation | |
| Same-Sex Relationships | p. 82 |
| Life style diversity: Sexual orientation | |
| The Diverse World of Single Adults | p. 93 |
| Life style diversity: Remaining single | |
| Permanent Postponement | p. 104 |
| Life style diversity: Marriage without children | |
| Love, Romance, and Intimacy | |
| Introduction | p. 115 |
| First Comes Marriage--Then, Maybe, Love | p. 120 |
| Arranged marriages | |
| Love and Property | p. 126 |
| The marriage market: Erotic property | |
| From Strangers to Intimates | p. 135 |
| The process of intimacy | |
| The Three Faces of Love | p. 145 |
| How do I love thee?. . . Let me count the ways | |
| Communicating With One Another | |
| Introduction | p. 155 |
| Love-Centered Marriage | p. 158 |
| Marriage as a process | |
| Marriage and the Construction of Reality | p. 165 |
| The two becoming one: How perspectives merge | |
| Uncovering Secret Contracts | p. 175 |
| How implicit assumptions affect reality | |
| The Deadly Love-Anger Cycle | p. 185 |
| Dealing with anger | |
| The Man-Woman Crisis | p. 193 |
| Sex roles: Searching for common ground | |
| Parenting: Choices and Challenges | |
| Introduction | p. 201 |
| 200 Years of Childbirth | p. 205 |
| Historical perspectives on childbirth | |
| Centuries of Childhood | p. 214 |
| Historical perspectives on childhood | |
| High-Tech Breeding | p. 226 |
| Technology and the brave new world | |
| Is There Sex After Baby? | p. 235 |
| Adjusting to the new arrival | |
| Principles for the Healthy Growth and Development of Children | p. 243 |
| Raising healthy children | |
| Equity and Loyalty Among Brothers and Sisters | p. 250 |
| Sibling relationships | |
| The Empty Nest | p. 261 |
| When children leave home | |
| Work and Marriage | |
| Introduction | p. 271 |
| The Good-Provider Role | p. 275 |
| Who provides?: Historical shifts in relationships | |
| Hard Choices | p. 286 |
| Careers, children, and childlessness | |
| The Guilt That Drives Working Mothers Crazy | p. 297 |
| Trying to have it all | |
| Confessions of a Househusband | p. 305 |
| On marriage and housework and relationships | |
| The Myth of Male Helplessness | p. 311 |
| Making Your Dual-Career Marriage Successful | p. 314 |
| Building on strengths | |
| When Nightmares Become Reality | |
| Introduction | p. 321 |
| Date Rape | p. 324 |
| Sexual violence | |
| Battered Wives | p. 333 |
| Why do they stay? | |
| Explaining Family Violence | p. 344 |
| Just plain mean? | |
| Alcoholism in the Family | p. 357 |
| Cumulative crisis | |
| Marital Transitions: Divorce, Remarriage, and Widowhood | |
| Introduction | p. 367 |
| The Family Life Cycle--Its Stages and Dislocations | p. 372 |
| Entries and exits | |
| Why So Much Divorce? | p. 389 |
| Much more than personal preference | |
| How Children React to Divorce | p. 397 |
| When the world crumbles | |
| How Adults React to Divorce | p. 410 |
| Divorce as a process | |
| Effects of Divorce on Mothers and Children | p. 424 |
| The importance of support systems | |
| The Divorce Revolution and the Feminization of Poverty | p. 427 |
| Inequities in divorce | |
| The Stepfamily Cycle | p. 442 |
| Remarriage as a process | |
| Beyond Widowhood | p. 457 |
| Coping with bereavement | |
| Lasting Relationships | |
| Introduction | p. 471 |
| What Makes Today's Marriages Last? | p. 475 |
| Negotiating treacherous waters: Money, work, and sex | |
| Marriages Made to Last | p. 481 |
| Committed to one another | |
| Five Types of Marriage | p. 487 |
| Varieties of relationships | |
| Strong Families | p. 496 |
| Marriage and family as priority | |
| Appendix: Correlation Chart | p. 509 |
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