How to Use the Receiving Love Workbook | p. 1 |
The Gift Diary | p. 16 |
The Receiving Inventory | p. 18 |
Exercise: Construct Your Receiving Inventory | p. 18 |
Daily Gift Record | p. 20 |
Exercise: Keep a Daily Gift Record | p. 20 |
Dream Gift List | p. 22 |
Exercise: Keep a Dream Gift List for Your Partner | p. 22 |
The Imago Dialogue | p. 24 |
Mirroring | p. 26 |
Exercise: Learning to Mirror | p. 26 |
Validating | p. 29 |
Exercise: Learning to Validate | p. 29 |
Empathizing | p. 31 |
Exercise: Learning to Show Empathy | p. 31 |
Taking Turns | p. 33 |
Exercise: Trading Places | p. 33 |
Learning How You Know | p. 35 |
Are You a Separate or Connected Knower? | p. 37 |
Exercise: Are You a Separate or Connected Knower? | p. 37 |
Growth Process for Separate Knowers | p. 41 |
Exercise: Develop Your Connected Knowing Skills | p. 41 |
Growth Process for Connected Knowers | p. 44 |
Exercise: Develop Your Separate Knowing Skills | p. 44 |
Practice Receiving and Giving | p. 48 |
Receiving Sensory Impressions | p. 49 |
Exercise: Learning to Appreciate Your Senses | p. 49 |
Receiving Your Partner's Reality | p. 52 |
Exercise: Learning to Appreciate Your Partner | p. 52 |
Receiving a Gift and Giving a Gift | p. 55 |
Exercise: Practice Asking for and Receiving a Gift, and Giving a Gift | p. 56 |
Positive Flooding | p. 58 |
Exercise: Learning Positive Flooding | p. 59 |
Exercise: Expanding Positive Flooding | p. 60 |
Your "Receiving Quotient" Assessment | p. 64 |
Exercise: Examining Your Receptivity | p. 64 |
Your "Giving Love" Assessment | p. 70 |
Exercise: Examining How Giving You Are | p. 70 |
Your Imago | p. 76 |
Influences From Childhood | p. 79 |
Exercise: What I Got from My Parents or Other Caretakers | p. 79 |
Current Influences | p. 91 |
Exercise: The Beliefs My Partner Brought to Our Relationship | p. 91 |
Choosing the Messages of the Future | p. 96 |
Exercise: Deciding How I Want to Give and Receive Now | p. 96 |
Barriers to Intimacy | p. 99 |
Exercise: Identifying Your Childhood Wound | p. 101 |
Exercise: Learning More About How Your Childhood Wound Affects Your Relationship | p. 103 |
Exercise: What to Do with Information About Your Childhood Wound | p. 111 |
Identifying Your Defenses | p. 115 |
Exercise: How Do You Try to Defend Yourself? | p. 117 |
Discovering Your Hidden Potential | p. 128 |
Recovering Your Lost Self | p. 132 |
Exercise: Identifying Your Lost Self | p. 132 |
Recovering Your Lost Self in Relationship | p. 139 |
Exercise: What Messages Do I Send to My Partner? | p. 139 |
Becoming Whole Again | p. 145 |
Discovering Your Disowned and Denied Self | p. 149 |
Exercise: What Is There About You That You're Not Seeing? | p. 149 |
Your Personal Growth Plan | p. 154 |
Exercise: Integrating Your Disowned and Denied Self | p. 154 |
Appendix | p. 159 |
Acknowledgments | p. 193 |
About Imago Relationship Theory | p. 194 |
About the Authors | p. 195 |
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