Stop Spoiling That Man

How to love a man without spoiling him? That?s the question millions of women are asking themselves. They complain that their husbands or boyfriends demand too much and give back too little, yet these women are often the ones doing the spoiling. Or, at the very least, they?re unconsciously rewarding the very behavior they complain about. In Stop Spoiling That Man, Dr. John B. Arden and his wife, Victoria Arden, reveal how women can develop the skills to unspoil their men and encourage their men to be more equal givers. The authors explain how to: ? Distinguish between a truly spoiled man and one who really isn?t ? Dissect the various ways that spoiled men control women ? Deal with such men using a wide range of methods With practical suggestions, lists, quizzes, and real-life vignettes, Stop Spoiling That Man helps readers focus on relationshipenhancing and self-protecting skills.<<AUTHOR: John B. Arden, Ph.D. (Sebastopol, CA), is a psychologist with 30 years of counseling experience. He has led a relationship group for 15 years and has provided couples counseling for 20 years. He is the director of training for mental health for the Kaiser Permanente Medical Centers in northern California. In this capacity, he oversees the largest mental health training program in the nation. Dr. Arden has taught in colleges, professional schools, and universities. As the author of five previous books, he has been interviewed by Fortune, Real Simple, Redbook, Cosmopolitan, CBS Market Watch, the San Francisco Chronicle, many nationally syndicated radio programs, and several other media outlets. Dr. Arden?s wife, Victoria Arden, M.A., is an arts educator and has worked in the mental health field.