About the Editors | p. xi |
Contributors | p. xiii |
Foreword | p. xvii |
Opening the Door | p. 1 |
Why Adopt? | p. 2 |
Where Do We Begin? | p. 6 |
What Are Our Options? | p. 8 |
Other Considerations in Creating a Family | p. 13 |
Introducing Personal Stories | p. 14 |
Welcome Home: From the Perspective of Research on International Adoption | p. 17 |
The Northeast-Northwest Collaborative Adoption Projects (N[superscript 2]CAP) | p. 18 |
The Questions: The Family Questionnaire | p. 21 |
Survey Findings | p. 24 |
Summary and Concluding Remarks | p. 31 |
From Couple to Family | p. 35 |
How We Got to be a Family of Seventeen | p. 35 |
And We Wait and Wait and Wait ... | p. 42 |
The Transatlantic Phone Call | p. 45 |
We Get to Go Home | p. 46 |
We Very Quickly Become a Family of Five | p. 48 |
Addendum | p. 50 |
Coming Home from China | p. 55 |
The Potential Parents | p. 55 |
Our Experiences en Route to the Adoption | p. 56 |
Becoming Gianna | p. 63 |
Beginning Life with Gia | p. 65 |
Keeping in Touch with the Chinese Culture | p. 69 |
Gia's Adoption Story | p. 70 |
The Family I Wanted | p. 73 |
Getting Started | p. 73 |
At Long Last--A Daughter | p. 77 |
Our Family Expands | p. 80 |
Taking the Plunge Once Again | p. 82 |
And Then There Were Four | p. 85 |
Suggestions for Those Contemplating a Larger Family | p. 87 |
Our Daughters from China Have Two Mommies | p. 91 |
Making The Decision to Adopt | p. 92 |
The Adoption Process: A Circuitous Paper Chase | p. 93 |
Lia: Our First Daughter | p. 97 |
The Decision to Adopt Again: Getting Amy | p. 100 |
Adoptions from China Today | p. 104 |
From One Wondrous Second to Countless Memorable Moments: Adventures in Adoption | p. 109 |
Adoption Wonderings | p. 110 |
Adoption Disappointments | p. 111 |
The Arrival of Zoe | p. 112 |
The Arrival of Zachary | p. 116 |
Zoe and Zachary Then and Today | p. 120 |
My Adoption Insights | p. 123 |
Reflections Today | p. 126 |
Addendum | p. 127 |
Addendum | p. 128 |
Addendum | p. 129 |
Addendum | p. 130 |
Addendum | p. 131 |
Welcome Home--Liv, Kim, and Love | p. 133 |
Swedish Adoption | p. 133 |
Why Did I Adopt a Child? | p. 134 |
Experiences en Route to the Adoption | p. 136 |
Costs of International Adoption | p. 137 |
My Daughter--Delivered at Stockholm Airport | p. 138 |
My Older Son--A Happy Encounter in "The Land of Smiles" | p. 140 |
My Youngest Son--A Less Dramatic Start | p. 142 |
Who Am I? | p. 143 |
Going Back: Searching for Roots | p. 144 |
Reflections | p. 148 |
A Perfect Lottery | p. 151 |
Preadoption Considerations | p. 151 |
The Adoption of Carolina Martha Linnea Kaufman | p. 154 |
Jonathan Edgar Erik Joins the Family | p. 161 |
Our Three Children | p. 165 |
Telling Children About Their Background | p. 166 |
The Present | p. 167 |
The Adoption Process | p. 169 |
Adopting from Eastern Europe 101 | p. 173 |
Deciding to Adopt | p. 173 |
Finding a Child | p. 176 |
Adoption and Heritage | p. 183 |
Zoe Today | p. 184 |
Miracle Sisters from Romania | p. 187 |
Our Decision to Adopt | p. 187 |
Joanna's Half Sister Arrives | p. 196 |
Adventures in Adoption: From Russia to America | p. 201 |
The Preadoption Phase | p. 202 |
The Adoption Is Finalized | p. 209 |
Peter Enters Our Hearts and Our Family | p. 213 |
Reflections | p. 217 |
Four Roads Less Traveled but They All Lead Home | p. 219 |
Factors Leading to My Adoptions | p. 219 |
A Full Circle | p. 220 |
The Miracle Baby | p. 222 |
Jo Arrives on the Scene | p. 224 |
Charles--A Fight That Had to Be Won | p. 227 |
Brianna--A Very Different Story | p. 233 |
A Retrospective Glance | p. 234 |
Problems, Perils, and Pleasures of Mulitcultural and Biracial Adoptions | p. 237 |
Reasons for Seeking to Adopt Abroad | p. 239 |
Multicultural Issues | p. 240 |
Coping with Uncertainties and New Realities | p. 242 |
Reflections | p. 243 |
Legal Concerns | p. 244 |
Postscript | p. 245 |
Adoption Resources | p. 247 |
In the United States | p. 247 |
Outside the United States | p. 249 |
Bibliography | p. 251 |
Index | p. 253 |
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