About the Editors | p. xi |
Contributors | p. xiii |
Foreword | p. xix |
Preface: Tribute to William C. Nichols Jr., EdD | p. xxv |
An Overview | p. 1 |
Treating Divorcing Families in Family Therapy: A Literature Review | p. 3 |
Early Literature on the Stages of Divorce | p. 4 |
The Introduction of Divorce Therapy and Systemic Treatment Models | p. 5 |
Recognizing Children's Experiences in Divorce | p. 7 |
Literature on the Legal and Technical Aspects of Divorce | p. 8 |
Literature on Remarriage and Blended Families | p. 10 |
Staying Together or Separating and Divorcing: Helping Couples Process Their Choices | p. 21 |
An Existential-Dialectical View of "Success" and "Failure" in Marriage and Marital Therapy | p. 22 |
An Existential-Dialectical View of the Decision to Divorce | p. 25 |
The Stages of Divorce | p. 31 |
Encouraging Desirable Pain in the Treatment of Divorcing Couples | p. 32 |
Author's Reflections | p. 33 |
An Ecosystemic Look at the Rights of children in Divorce | p. 37 |
The Ecosystemic Orientation | p. 39 |
Rights of Children in Divorce | p. 41 |
Complicating Factors Considered by Ecosystemic Level | p. 44 |
Author's Reflections: What Does This Model Highlight for Us? | p. 51 |
Models and Issues | p. 55 |
Systemic Dynamics and Interventions for Selected Marital Conflicts | p. 57 |
Understanding Marital Conflicts from a Family Systems Perspective | p. 58 |
Situations That Underlie Marital Conflicts | p. 59 |
Three Clinical Stages of Marital Conflict | p. 66 |
Reaching Therapeutic Solutions | p. 67 |
Author's Reflections | p. 69 |
Four Predivorce Marital Typologies That Aid Clinical Assessment | p. 71 |
The Critical Issue | p. 71 |
The Divorce Process | p. 72 |
Four Typologies | p. 73 |
Authors' Reflections | p. 82 |
Disclosing Gay or Lesbian Orientation Within Marriage: A Systems Perspective | p. 85 |
The Gordian Knot of Sexual Orientation Disclosure in Marriage | p. 86 |
The Disclosing Spouse | p. 87 |
The Spouse to Whom Disclosure is Made | p. 90 |
Children of Disclosing Individuals | p. 91 |
Family System Reactions | p. 92 |
Recovery | p. 94 |
Therapeutic Implications | p. 95 |
Author's Reflections | p. 98 |
Issues of Separation and Divorce in Families Affected by Domestic Violence | p. 101 |
The Appropriateness of Systems Approaches in Domestic Violence Cases | p. 102 |
Working with the Abuse Survivor in Therapy | p. 104 |
Author's Reflections on the Posture of the Therapist | p. 107 |
Children's Voices in the Midst of Parental Breakup: A Qualitative Study of Trauma in "Ordinary" Families | p. 111 |
The Clinical Setting | p. 112 |
Family Dynamics During Separation and Divorce: A Child's Feelings of Helplessness | p. 114 |
The Application of Trauma Theory to Children's Experiences of Their Parents' Divorce | p. 115 |
Findings of the Study: The Children's Voices | p. 119 |
Author's Reflections on Helping Children Express Their Feelings in the Therapy Setting | p. 126 |
The Influence of Divorce on Children: A Special Focus on Iceland | p. 129 |
Divorce Statistics in Iceland | p. 130 |
Influence of Divorce on Children and Youths | p. 131 |
Reactions of Children, Vary with Age | p. 132 |
Clinical Interventions | p. 133 |
Mediation and Joint Custody | p. 134 |
Author's Reflections | p. 137 |
Postdivorce Relatedness Between Parents, Their Divorce Sons, and Their Grandchildren: A Pilot Study | p. 141 |
The Relationship of the Paternal Grandparents to the Divorced Family | p. 142 |
Paternal Grandparents' Reactions to Son's Divorce and Possible Changes in Relationship to Children | p. 144 |
Findings and Implications | p. 145 |
Clinical Implications | p. 153 |
Author's Reflections | p. 153 |
Systemic Family Interventions | p. 157 |
Family Therapy with a Lesbian "Stepparent" Couple Experiencing Partner Abuse: A Case Report | p. 159 |
Lesbian Domestic Violence and Partner Abuse: An Overview | p. 160 |
Characteristics of Lesbian "Stepfamilies" | p. 162 |
Treating Partner Abuse in Lesbian "Stepfamilies" | p. 165 |
Author's Reflections | p. 178 |
Protecting Children When Parents Are Divorcing: Clinical Issues Through Three Systemic Stages of Divorce | p. 181 |
Protecting Children Through the Structural Decoupling Stage | p. 182 |
Protecting Children Through the Network Coupling Stage | p. 187 |
Protecting Children Through the Structural Recoupling Stage | p. 191 |
Author's Reflections | p. 194 |
Surprised by Divorce: Working with the Spouse for Whom the Rejection Was Unanticipated | p. 195 |
Clinical Issues from a Systems Perspective | p. 196 |
Selecting Possible Systemic Interventions and Strategies | p. 198 |
Recognizing the Family System's Responses and Dynamics | p. 200 |
Author's Reflections | p. 203 |
Rebalancing the Postdivorce Family When the First Spouse Remarries: Systemic Family Interventions | p. 205 |
Discussion of the Clinical Issue from a Family Systems Perspective | p. 206 |
Selecting Possible Systemic Interventions and Strategies | p. 207 |
Recognizing the Family System's Responses and Dynamics | p. 211 |
Author's Reflections | p. 213 |
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy in the Wake of Divorce | p. 217 |
Cognitive-Behavioral Approach to Divorcing Couples | p. 219 |
Clinical Vignette | p. 220 |
Case Example | p. 223 |
Author's Reflections | p. 225 |
Using Maps and Vision in Family Therapy with Remarriage | p. 229 |
The Metaphor of Invisible Maps | p. 231 |
Using Maps with Remarried Families | p. 232 |
Working with Maps in Family Therapy | p. 233 |
The Marital Vision in Remarriage | p. 237 |
Authors'Reflections | p. 243 |
Family Therapy for the Postdivorce Adjustment of Women Left by 'Their Husbands for Another Woman | p. 247 |
Description of the Clinical Pattern of Trauma | p. 248 |
Clinical issues and Treatment Strategies | p. 251 |
Author's Reflections | p. 258 |
The Systemic Treatment of Affairs: A Multicontextual Relational Approach | p. 261 |
The Affair As a Relational Injury | p. 262 |
The Multicontextual Relational Model | p. 269 |
Treating Affairs and Healing Relational Injuries | p. 266 |
Author's Reflections | p. 276 |
The Futile Quest: Parental Loss and Serial Relationships | p. 277 |
Initial Treatment Concerns | p. 278 |
Shaping the Ongoing Treatment | p. 278 |
Therapeutic Artistry | p. 280 |
The Lethal Dynamic of Toxic Grief | p. 281 |
The Current Cast As a Reflection of the Inner Emptiness | p. 281 |
Author's Reflections: Continuing the Journey | p. 283 |
A Therapeutic Look at "Gray Divorces" | p. 285 |
Who Are These Divorcing Adults? | p. 287 |
Contextual Problems of "Gray Divorces" | p. 292 |
Treatment Issues | p. 296 |
Author's Reflections | p. 297 |
Summary of the Career and Publications of William C. Nichols | p. 301 |
Index | p. 311 |
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